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Empower

Your

Personalized

Relationship

Dynamics  

 

 

TRADITIONAL & ALTERNATIVE RELATIONSHIP COACHING 

FOR CONSCIOUS LIVING  &  HEALTHY SEXUALITY

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EXPANDING THE SOCIAL NORMS OF RELATIONSHIPS BY VALIDATING AND UNDERSTANDING THE VARIETY OF MONOGAMOUS  &  NON-MONOGAMOUS DYNAMICS GROWING IN OUR CULTURE

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UNLOCK YOUR OPTIMAL POTENTIAL FOR CONNECTION 

BASED ON YOUR LIFESTYLE THROUGH ETHICS  &  INTEGRITY

PROVIDING GUIDANCE FOR: 

MONOGAMY / POLYAMORY /

SWINGING  /  OPEN RELATIONSHIPS /

ASEXUAL LIFE-PARTNERSHIPS /

& CONSCIOUS DE-COUPLING

"Before I worked with D.J., I felt unsafe in an open relationship.

 

The major shift he helped me create was to communicate even when I felt like avoiding, because conflict does not mean ending. He showed me it is safe to express when both people are invested.

 

Now I feel safe, seen and understood. I feel excited to explore and am experiencing the best orgasms of my life because I feel so safe and seen."                                                            

"D.J. understands redefining relationships and the nature of constant personal change. He made transiting a long-term relationship into a lifelong friendship possible. Creating a loving and enjoyable post-relationship atmosphere is possible. That should be the norm."                            

"My wife is grateful for D.J. talking with me about our  issues. We ended up having some amazing sex last night... and a very lovely  evening."         

"After our romantic relationship ended I continued to use D.J. as my basis for how men should treat me. He was the first man to show me what it was like to really be loved."                                                                                  

*D.J.'s Note: I can't describe the level of pride this filled me with.

"The best repeated compliment I've received is that I have amazing friends and partners that are high-quality people, and I can't agree more. Those incredible people have made it my life's pleasure to learn about building & maintaining strong & positive relationships."

                                                                           -D.J.

Compersion® exists to spotlight what healthy relationship dynamics can look like and how to avoid unhealthy situations or even becoming the unhealthy component yourself without realizing. We also offer separating partners guidance to respectfully de-couple and redefine their futures. Compersion provides tools to hone in on what dynamic will work best for you and your life or improve the one you've already chosen. 

 

Everyone loves a good Disney-tale or poppy love song, but let's face it, a lot of toxic behavior lies within those "happily ever afters." Compersion focuses on self-less love and freeing yourself from out-dated views of what love is or should look like. 

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We aim to spread authentic loving vibes everywhere possible, and confront abusive relationships. Join us as we level the playing field of normalcy between monogamous and non-monogamous relationship styles, proving none is better than another. 

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The revolution is here. It's time to get excited about your relationships again.

D.J. Markuson
Founder / Coach

Welcome! I’m D.J.

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Compersion® is the result of decades of extraordinary personal experiences in both alternative and traditional relationship dynamics, plus a couple traumatic ones, and years of studying relational psychology.

 

I aim to demystify and help end the stigma of alternative relationship styles while still honoring traditional dynamics equally among modern options. Any of these dynamics can fit in an incredible life. We just have to find what works best for you.

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As the relationship landscape rapidly changes, and the world evolves, many are left jaded by the old ways of dating and partnerships. I offer empathetic insight and perspective to anyone struggling to find connections that invigorate them by providing healthy options based on each person's desired lifestyle. Even those in traditional monogamous partnerships can benefit from expanding their understanding of what relationships can be and still strengthen their existing beliefs.

 

I won't campaign for dynamic conversions, but I'll support someone in finding what dynamic fits them best through a healthy mindset. Sometimes it's the same dynamic they arrived with, just leveled up. I do this by opening people up to all the possibilities that exist within the life they already have and what can be ahead when they see themselves more clearly and compassionately. I also teach healthy de-coupling, as well as early warning skills to be better protected from predatory relationships and situations. Consider that one, my Defense Against the Dark Arts class.

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I'm a conscious-living coach specializing in relationship dynamics. I have a diverse background in art, film production, community building, and psychology. I'm also a neurodivergent trauma survivor who can relate to a plethora of different viewpoints while quickly adapting to new ones. I love a challenge, and relationships are my specialty. So let's hear what you've got for me.​

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I provide clients with an accessible entry point to a journey many find too daunting or "just not their thing." I'm not your typical coach and I don't try to be. I'm a raver from the 90s, who's carried the PLUR mentality through many fulfilling experiences and cherishes self-exploration. If you're ready to take a journey and enhance your current or future relationships, sign up for a free consultation today.

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So much of this is about breaking internal chains. To be able to look inside yourself and at those you choose to call loved ones, and make choices you'll be proud of when you reflect back one day. This is "doing the work," and it comes with a grand reward. So get ready to be excited about your love life again. It's time.

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1-on-1 sessions are tailored to each person that is ready to break down walls and self discover the f*@k out of themselves. LFG

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Practice Areas

Services

All live sessions are remote via Zoom.

VR Metaverse sessions are also available upon request.

Fees and in-depth descriptions can be found here.  

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And find D.J. dancing at a festival and say hi to get exclusive Compersion festival swag!

Plus sign up for your Compersion Club membership and enjoy perks as you earn compersion coins with each purchase.

 

Our loyalty page can be found here.  

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Intro Session

Free 45 Minute Intro Available to:

  • Individuals

  • Couples

  • Throuples +

In this initial session we will evaluate and discuss:

  • What your current lifestyle looks like?

  • What your desired relationship(s) looks like?

  • What might be blocking you from achieving the relationship(s) you want?

  • If we would be a good fit to work on this together.

Personalized Sessions

60 Minute Sessions Available in Packages for:

  • Individuals

  • Couples

  • Throuples +

In these personalized guidance sessions you will work towards:

  • Having a better understanding of self as well as your needs and desires.

  • Being empowered by utilizing your current strengths and even weaknesses.

  • Creating sustainability and trust in your current relationship(s).

  • Discovering what shifts can be made in your life to make better fitting connections.

  • Healing past wounds.

  • The desire for ego death.

  • Living your life more consciously and healthy.

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